What has brought my life so much joy, is the long lasting and loving friendships I've had. I don't even think I have the right words to explain the love I have for my friends and all the laughter they have brought into my life. People who choose to live secluded and without friends, are people I will never understand. Ever. People are the best part of life, their stories and experiences have a very weird way of impacting on your own and it's even better then you consider those people your friends. 
As I've recently looked at my life and what's missing is, not necessarily my lack of friends, but how I haven't spent much time with the people who i've considered really important. Most of the time these friendships, have dwindled on my behalf and my awkwardness of not wanting to reach out too them. Disclaimer: Michael is my best friend and most days he's the only person I want to see, but my favorite part of our relationship is that we value each others friends and typically share our good friends. I've been on this very me centered, trying to get it all together in the past couple of months and I probably would have figured it out, if I spent more time with the people I love most. I 'm very bothered by the people who complain about their lack of friends, because they're probably the reason they lack them.
Where I'm going with this is, value your friendships and don't let them go stale. I'll be inviting lots of people to have lunch with me in the next few weeks.
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